Katie Clark, Director of Training at Peace Love Dogs
The holiday season can be a joyous time for families and pets alike, but it can also be a source of stress. If you plan to include your dog in the festivities this year, start training these skills to help everyone enjoy the season!
Desensitizing to Holiday Stimuli
Decorations: The sights and sounds of the holiday season can be overwhelming for some dogs. Start by introducing your dog to decorations gradually. Begin with one or two items, like ornaments or a small tree, and allow your dog to explore them at their own pace. Reward your dog with treats and praise for calm behavior around the decorations. If your dog shows signs of fear or anxiety, take a step back and allow them to acclimate more slowly. Reward them for staying calm when they’re near the decorations, reinforcing positive associations.
Music: Holiday music can be cheerful for us, but it can be jarring for dogs. Play soft holiday music at a low volume to introduce it to your pup. Gradually increase the volume while rewarding your dog for remaining calm. If they show signs of distress, decrease the volume and work back up more slowly.
Groups of People: The influx of guests can be exciting yet overwhelming. Prepare your dog by gradually introducing them to larger groups. Start with one or two friends over, rewarding your dog for calm behavior. If your dog becomes anxious or unruly, create a safe space where they can take a break.
Crate Training for Travel and Downtime
Crate training is essential for providing your dog with a secure space during travel or moments of chaos. If your dog isn’t already crate trained, start by making the crate a positive place. Use treats, toys, and praise to encourage your dog to enter the crate. Ensure it’s a cozy environment with a blanket or bed inside. When traveling, make sure the crate is secure in the vehicle, and provide familiar items to help your dog feel at ease.
During busy holiday gatherings, a crate can also serve as a retreat. Encourage your dog to use it as a safe space when they need a break from the excitement. This will help reduce stress for both your dog and your guests.
Teaching “Place” for Relaxation
One of the most effective skills to teach your dog during the holidays is the “place” command. This command instructs your dog to go to a designated spot, such as a mat or bed, where they can relax. Begin training in a quiet environment, guiding your dog to the spot and rewarding them for staying there. Gradually introduce distractions, rewarding them for remaining in their place. This skill can help prevent begging at the table and allow your dog to relax amidst the excitement.
Polite Sitting for Attention
Finally, teaching your dog to sit politely for attention is crucial during the holidays. Start by asking your dog to sit when they approach you or when guests arrive. Reward them for sitting calmly instead of jumping or begging. Consistency is key; reinforce this behavior during every interaction to establish a calm, polite greeting.
With training, you can create a stress-free environment for your dog and curate a positive holiday experience for everyone!

